
If you weren’t aware, last week, The New York Time’s featured a review by Ginia Bellafante for ‘Game of Thrones’ that branded her as public enemy number one within the geek community overnight. As a television reviewer for a prestigious news outlet like the NY Times, Bellafante failed to address her thoughts and information about series, went on and bashed on the female geek community. Instead of mentioning information regarding the series such as the book and author that the series was adapted from or thoughts about the character and actor dynamics in the series, Bellafante comments on the fact that no women would ever read or watch Game of Thrones.
“The true perversion, though, is the sense you get that all of this illicitness has been tossed in as a little something for the ladies, out of a justifiable fear, perhaps, that no woman alive would watch otherwise. While I do not doubt that there are women in the world who read books like Mr. Martin’s, I can honestly say that I have never met a single woman who has stood up in indignation at her book club and refused to read the latest from Lorrie Moore unless everyone agreed to “The Hobbit” first. “Game of Thrones” is boy fiction patronizingly turned out to reach the population’s other half.”
“If you are not averse to the Dungeons & Dragons aesthetic, the series might be worth the effort. If you are nearly anyone else, you will hunger for HBO to get back to the business of languages for which we already have a dictionary.”
Bellafante’s outlandish comments that Game of Thrones is a “boy-fiction” and that illicit sex was included in the series only to get females to watch the series drove the internet mad. Shocked and insulted, geeks (both women and men) united and declared their anger and disapproval through Twitter, response articles, and email direct to Bellafante and the NY Times. While I wanted to put together a response article as well, some great response articles already hit the web and I decided that I couldn’t say anything more than what was already said. Below are some of those great response articles:
“Really, why would men ever want to watch Game Of Thrones?” by Annalee Newitz via iO9 (@Annaleen)
“Response to the NY Times Game of Thrones Review” by Amy Ratcliffe via Geek with Curves (@amy_geek)
“OP/ED: Hey NY Times – Geek Girls Really Do Exist!” by Alan Kistler via Newsarama (@SizzlerKistler)
“Game Of Thrones’ Is Not ‘Boy Fiction” by Jennings Roth Cornet via Think Hero (@JRothC)
Now, after a week, Ginia Bellafante addresses the public in a response of her own titled, “Pull Up a Throne and Let’s Talk” once again on NY Times. While I expected the response to be a gracious letter to her readers to admit defeat and forgiveness, I was blindsided by her rudeness once again. Instead of addressing the public with a convincing argument to back her original review, Bellafante takes the opportunity to celebrate her new found notoriety and shoves it in our faces. Her rebuttal is full of quotes from angry readers such as Bonnie Burton (@bonniegrrl), Trudi Margach (@LadyValhalla), and Erik Smith (@ebrown2112) in which it seems that Bellafante seeming is getting some joy from the extra attention. If that’s wasn’t bad enough, Bellafante continues to comment that Game of Thrones isn’t something she is interested in and gives us the impression that the book, series, and it’s fans are beneath her and it isn’t sophisticated enough for her liking. Bellafante’s rude rebuttal has become nothing more than jet fuel to a fire that won’t stop raging.
Sure, everyone has the right to speak for themselves and say whats on their minds, but the idea that someone can rudely kick both genders in the teeth is just irresponsible. As a reviewer for a trusted news source, Bellafante has the incredible power to voicing her opinion about a series. The power of praising or ridiculing a series’ directing, writing, acting, production, etc. is in their hands and they can do whatever they want with it. However, to use that power to make belittle it’s fans is more that unnecessary. The silly assumption that women aren’t interested in Game of Thrones and was made specifically for men makes me laugh. As a lifelong “geek”, I have found that the fantasy fan community has been heavily driven by the female community. Some of the biggest fans of J.R.R. Tolkien (Lord of the Rings) and George R.R. Martin (A Song of Fire and Ice) I know online and in real life are women. I’m married to one of those women that Bellafante thinks is non-existent. My wife is a huge fan of fantasy and video games and the hours and hours of time she is currently putting into ‘Dragon Age 2′ boggles my mind. She and I spend our nights watching movies such as the ‘Lord of the Rings’ trilogy and television shows such as ‘Camelot’. Now, we are deeply invested into ‘Game of Thrones’ for it’s incredible visuals and fantasy-based story. Also, I can tell you that we aren’t watching Game of Thrones for the crazed sex.
I am not much of a person of labels. Geek guys. Geek girls. Geek chickens. Gender doesn’t really matter to me when it comes to being a “geek”. I find it all a bit silly and feel like it excludes the geek community from each other. That is one of the reasons why I go under the title of “geektrooper” as it is faceless and isn’t gender bias. Anyone and everyone can be a “geektrooper”. I feel that same way about Game of Thrones. Anyone and every can enjoy it regardless of sex or race (oh, thank goodness you didn’t bring race into it). It’s ludicrous to think that a series was meant for a single gender only because it’s “fantasy”, let alone presuming the other gender would only tune in for the sex. I won’t go and criticise Ms. Bellafante’s body of work, but it seems clear to me that reviewing television shows is just not your calling. Even though it seems like you are well educated and have a impressive way with words, you are showing no talent as a responsible reviewer and should leave that for the folks that would inform the public instead of insulting them.
You (Bellafante) hinted and pointed that “we” complained about your review even before most of us got a chance to see the first episode. I have to ask. Did you even watch it?